……..Conclusion
A perfect emotion as created in us by God is simple; it does not have any emotional distinction expressed by women or men. This is one of the greatest injustice our so called civilization or modern world has visited on us, I don’t know who to blame but we didn’t have to believe the crap they were selling to us, who said men can’t wear pink, who said men can’t hug each other, who said boys should not go to dance classes. Who has done us such injustice and left us with such emptiness of heart.

So, while we would all love to say one is better than the other it may be better to accept that we are different and must make room for each other. The peace of God and the emotional balance that we have from Him is so selfless, so little about ourselves but more what we do to others emotionally.

In a relationship consider your partner as much in need as you are, avoid putting your partner, friend or family member in an emotional box to fit the behaviour of their gender. Avoid having a preconception of who you think they are.

Take a step back from everyone’s high and mighty opinion of your ex-partners because you are the person that spent part of your life with them and this makes you better placed to know them more than anyone else. Make a decision on the person yourself because you actually know what to do but your search for emotional support can go too far. On the other if we must support people emotionally, then support them in the comfort of friendship not as a judge and avoid trying to live your own pain through them.

I hope you have been able to consider some issues from the above. I will have my new topic (Looking for answers) up in a few hours but before then don't forget to visit the Irish salsa congress website and be part of this wonderful event that has kept Ireland on the Salsa dance map for 10 years http://www.irishsalsacongress.com/