Love
Selfless, sacrifice, kind, true and forgiving. If you were to practice these things then my friend you have began your journey to loving someone or to at least understand love. Do not mistake comforts, fear, desire to satisfy a lack in your life as love and most importantly what you don’t have you can’t give. So if you can love yourself better still God, then you may just be able to love another person
Hope
Hope is the future that keeps you going because you believe that your tomorrow will be better than your today.
Negativity
I also wonder why some people just enjoy negativity so much, they tend to have a new sort of joy at creating pain for others and just being generally an itch to others, the more I wonder the more I realise these type of people have very little to celebrate in their lives and very little to hope for. Once you see them, you have seen the sum total of their life. So regardless of what they say about you they just want to satisfy their lack
Faith
I once heard a preacher say there is a difference between the fact and the truth about you. Those who believe in God would apply their faith and that triggers hope and miracles regardless of the fact on ground because your faith is based on God who can do things that are impossible to man, and this can make the fact of a situation differ from the truth of that situation. I believe in change, because anything that remains the same is dead!
Who are you?
Who I am is not as important as whose I am. I am defined by what I believe and not by what I see
Cowards
I would define the male version of this group of people as “big girls’ blouse” and there are very many of them now, especially with social network site and emails. People can’t even stand in front of others and make accusation directly to the person. And of course they defend their behaviour by further surrounding themselves with cowards, no surprises!
Peace or Fight
Failure to reach an agreement because of selfishness, self righteousness or stubbornness in the believe that you and no one else is correct on the issue could be the worst mistake you make because the passive partner who has neither said a word on the matter or has taken a position of peace may be more aggressive than you can ever imagine. Their pain and anger on that same issue could be bottled up and controlled for a greater purpose not because they are weak or unable to fight back.
But of what use is a fight when no one comes out smelling of roses, when you can simply resolve it. To this end I would like to encourage the seekers of peace to keep doing what is right for the sake of peace. I believe that from the perspective of the “accused” the desire for resolution is not necessarily guilt but a desire for peace. So whether you believe you are the victim or accused, the problem can be resolved by a genuine attempt by both parties because no problem has come to you that is new on earth. Seek peace first!
At this juncture though I must admit that someday you will have to fight and if you must fight, then my friend for the peace you have kept all this years, for the peace you have so cherished and scarified for, again my friend fight fight and fight till the last drop of blood and let anyone who may come against you meet with us, for we will stand together with you at the battle for peace and truth until our last blood is spilt, for we know the truth, we understand the peace and we NEVER LOSE
